If you were to do a Google search on “love is a game,” you would find a large number of quotes from authors, philosophers, musicians, and everyday people who have felt like love is just a game.
“Love is a losing game.”
“Love is a game in which one always cheats.”
“Love is a game that two can play and both win.”
So is love really just a game? How is it possible that some believe it is always a losing game while others believe two can win? What strategies can we use to make sure we are winners?
According to a recent study by Mons Bendixen and Leif Kennair from the Norwegian University of Science and Technology, there are two main strategies we often use to find love and attract potential partners. What do these two strategies look like and do they both work? If not, which one will make you a winner?Competitor Derogation
Competitor derogation is the strategy of making others look less attractive than ourselves. Name calling, spreading rumors, or pointing out a rivals more negative qualities are all examples of ... Read more »