“To have and to hold…for better or for worse.” This phrase is familiar to all of us, and many of us have heard the phrase, or one like it, directed towards us and a previous or current spouse. While this phrase carries a lot of meaning, it highlights one of the key aspects of a successful marriage: supporting one another in good times and bad.
Many of us take this to heart and willingly give of ourselves in support of our spouse. Whether it be supporting them in finding a job, working together as parents, or being a shoulder to cry on, we all recognize the value of support.
But what happens when the support we try to give doesn’t seem to have any effect? If you have a partner who doesn’t feel better with the support you have to offer, then what happens to that value?
According to a recent study by Gelareh Karimiha and a team of scholars from Canada, when the support we offer doesn’t work it can leave us feeling much less valued.How Inconsolability Affects Us
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